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bluepolkadott
01 November 2009 @ 02:32 pm
 






15 different types of love

 
Infatuation:
loving feelings towards a love object that are largely based upon fantasy and idealization (instead of experience). Often when partners get to know each other, infatuation diminishes.
 
Romantic Love:
An abiding love for a partner with whom you feel passion, attraction, caring and respect.
 
Eros:
a passionate love usually involving sexual feelings for a love interest.
 
Companionate Love:
feelings of warmth towards a friend with whom you love to spend time with.
 
Unconditional Love:
A type of affection and caring that is so strong that you feel it consistently, regardless of what that other person does.
 
Conditional Love:
A love that requires specific action or conditions in order to be maintained. For example, at its extreme, a parent who gives very conditional love would only love his child when he gets straight A’s, becomes a surgeon and has two children. The love is based on outside conditions and when they do not occur, the love is withdrawn.
 
Puppy Love:
A childish, innocent temporary crush on someone that you don’t know well.
 
Maternal Love:
This term usually connotes love that is nurturing, accepting and protective. In actuality this love can also be given by a father etc.
 
Paternal Love:
This term connotes love that involves guidance and some authority. Paternal love usually prepares a child to be ready for the outside world. Again, in reality this type of love is not gender specific.
 
Soulmate Love:
This type of love is described as a love that has survived multiple life times. Not everyone believes in this concept.
 
Spiritual/Divine Love:
This type of love recognizes the Divine light in everyone and everything. Love is given to everyone as an act of loving God.
 
Love of your country or patriotism:
This is love for the place you live or the place that were born. It is a type of loyalty and a special feeling of belonging that you attribute to that specific geographic location.
 
Self-Love:
This is a positive feeling that you have about who you are and what you deserve. It often is expressed by treating yourself well, respecting yourself, wanting yourself to be happy and expecting others to respect you too.

Brotherly Love:
This term connotes having a feeling of love for your neighbor, because all humanity is considered to be part of a larger family of human beings.

Tough Love:
This term is used to describe a love that is expressed by setting boundaries for the good of the other person. So for example, a parent may send their teenager to rehab if he is drug addicted, even if he does not want to go. They feel that this is an act of love because it stems from a desire for their son’s ultimate good and happiness. This type of love is described as a love that has survived multiple life times. Not everyone believes in this concept.
 
 
bluepolkadott
18 October 2009 @ 01:54 pm
I like Taylor Swift, I just wanted people to know.
 
 
Current Mood: crazy
 
 
bluepolkadott
07 July 2009 @ 11:04 pm
I hate how my heart always breaks like that.

I freaking hate this so much I think I can cry. I want to swear and kill myself cause I think I brought this upon myself. I thought I got over it wth is my problem :'( & it sucks knowing how you both moved on and don't even think about me anymore cause yknow what I miss yall like crazy. I thought we're friends & we'd stay in touch but things don't freaking turn out that way, people move on & care less and less till they don't care anymore.

Freak, why.

:"(
 
 
Current Mood: + depressed
 
 
bluepolkadott
27 June 2009 @ 04:48 pm
" Price controls often hurt the very ones that they are trying to help."

How, true.
 
 
Current Location: Tampines Starbucks
Current Mood: crazy
Current Music: Zombie
 
 
bluepolkadott
31 May 2009 @ 02:37 am
Bluepolkadott might die.

JumpShipPlans :)
 
 
bluepolkadott
24 May 2009 @ 06:45 pm
I'm glad to realise there's really quite nothing seriously. It's comforting to know I've finally cleared my heart & my mind.
:)

You're nothing but a bad habit I need to kick, but I can't really.

--

Sometimes I feel so empty I wonder if it can be true. Are you gonna be there forever?
No matter how we choose to avoid it, we can't deny that we've drifted. When we see each other we no longer pour our hearts out. In a distance, instead of being excited about seeing each other, we wonder, what do we say?
Just so we're socially accepted? Aren't we.

--

I'm hungry permanently & headache's still there.
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Current Mood: hungry
 
 
bluepolkadott
09 April 2009 @ 09:19 pm

I really ought to be studying / doing GPP / doing PI but I'm super tired and I'm super lazy to do anything ): Stupid PW I don't even know for sure what I'm supposed to do. ( I hate how I've to be constantly eating ): )

Because of you, I am afraid. )
 
 
Current Mood: shocked at my own thinking ):
 
 
bluepolkadott
11 February 2009 @ 10:15 pm

I wanted to blog properly at xanga but I'm too tired to & there's still math shite to complete.
PDP is a total failure wanna die from all my fickle mindedness already.


I guess I'm tired of watching from the sidelines.
You probably know how I finally feel, except I never got around telling you.

Everyone's been telling me I'm taken granted for, and I probably know anyway. But I never do fight back cause I never know how to, breaking your heart is just as bad as my own. You matter so much you hurt me damn alot and I sound like I talking about my boyfriend or something -.-
& I cry just over you it's mad.

I'm too tired, shall look at math and fall asleep.
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Current Mood: depressed
 
 
bluepolkadott
Today was day out with Karina though we hardly did anything. Causeway point was pointless and I accidentally made a joke. But I loved her company nonetheless, I love my girlfriend. I was so unconsciously tired mannnn ):

I met my friend M on bus 969 and found myself pouring out to him. Soon, weariness ruled me over and I found myself waking up at Tampines Interchange sleeping on his shoulder. Talking was damn cool <3 He sent me home with time to kill and we agreed to walk and talk next week again, when he's free. Until I met my friend today, I never thought of how much I've missed him. Never realised how proper a person he could be (instead of chasing me round with roses & chocolates) I never knew how I could just tell him things.

I hope things are going to turn for the better now, but according to how she's talking to me, I highly doubt so. She says it's difficult to change a character, she doesn't know how much she changed. Things are already at the bottom of the pit, how much worse can it get. Yet life surprises others. They turn out alot lower than expectations.

Crazy how friends can just treat you like enemies & how your feelings can never be returned. Do they even know I care?
M is right, "Ha Ha".
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Current Mood: drained
 
 
bluepolkadott
08 November 2008 @ 10:25 pm
This is annoying I'd be missing for awhile now my poor xanga haiyuh :( stupid laptop's keyboard is being stupid & retarded I'm so super annoyed :(
Anyway thank goodness for iTouch hee. Arsenal & man utd are being funny where is Ramsey :( k going to watch/do physics. Hope I can go to my bro's competition tomm!!!!! :D (pleeeaaaseee)
Ouch Arsenal's goalkeeper is kicked majorly by rough Carrick.

K, ciao! :D sorry for being MIA I guess ;)



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bluepolkadott
06 November 2008 @ 08:59 pm
Ha alone at airport till BFF flew by and bought me cute plasters ha. K love her so :D



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bluepolkadott
17 October 2008 @ 11:58 pm
Clar makes alot of things alot better and I love her alot. :)
 all of nothing says:
hahahah okay la, but math is basically stupid, if they know already still ask me prove for what!
all of nothing says:
timewaster (:


About proving questions in math by the way haha so cute. I'm sorry for today and every other horrible thing/way whatever k :)
Haha I'm rly so queer today.


♥ my guy :)
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Current Mood: weird
Current Music: JianJianDanDan - LJJ
 
 
bluepolkadott
05 October 2008 @ 01:44 pm

HA.
 
 
bluepolkadott
21 September 2008 @ 02:32 pm

Who truly cares? Who truly understands?
Two seperate questions with one answer: No one.

Who'd be there forever, who'd really "Catch You When You Fall"?
Why do we keep decieving ourselves, really, we've only ourselves to count on.

HB, Karon. Time to discover Shawn?


I'd be my own next big rockstar, next big idol.

 
 
Current Mood: Hope lost.
 
 
bluepolkadott
31 August 2008 @ 06:08 pm
J, You're super funny. Here's this thing (aiyoh) don't buggggg me already ah!


:D
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Current Mood: Dead
 
 
bluepolkadott
25 August 2008 @ 11:46 pm

 This is Matthew Mitcham, I really love him :) haha although he'll never love me omg. :(
Nevermind he's so super cute and so super funny OMG WATCH TILL THE END :)

& I bet he's the girl of the gay pair, he's so cute omg, seriously!

Anyway, just FYI, he's Matthew Mitcham, 20YearsOld, won gold in platform guys diving :)

Love him, he's so funny he made my night :)



Oh Will :(
 
 
Current Mood: weird
 
 
bluepolkadott
03 August 2008 @ 09:52 pm

My heart aches, something to do with talking to Pris/Steph? It's not intended I swear, I swear.


Could all this be worth it?
Can I continue running and running?
Will it be worth it?

What a Broken Hearted </3

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Current Mood: confused
Current Music: only one - yellowcard
 
 
bluepolkadott
03 July 2008 @ 02:25 am
I've never seen a manpile so cute :) Young Torres:

Damn good, damn lovin' :)
 
 
bluepolkadott
26 June 2008 @ 10:23 pm
I've to keep reminding myself:
Hold on, and never give up.
& Don't kill myself.
 
 
Current Mood: drained
 
 
bluepolkadott
17 June 2008 @ 11:25 pm

I've been secretly crying every night.

I've a secret desire to kill myself.

Now's not a secret anymore

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Current Mood: sad
 
 
 
 

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